I was with a married man for four years. Six months ago his wife discovered our relationship so we had to stop. Someone told me that he is with another woman now. I don’t know if he is or not and I don’t know what I am going to. I am still in love with him and now I don’t know what I am going to do with my life. Please help.
Thank you for your heartfelt email. I know you are wondering about what this man is up to and whether he is with another woman now but if you focus on you and your life and particularly the future and the direction you can go in, you can move beyond this pain with the right help and support where you live.
Focusing on the future is something that can help all of us at such times, but it is also very important for you because your astrological chart actually shows that looking to the future and deciding what you are going to focus on will help you move beyond your current pain more than you may realise.
Firstly, it’s good to understand that we are all here to grow, evolve and transform and we all come with gifts and a special purpose. In your chart, you have Pluto in Libra and that means you have a gift of being able to bring about fairness and justice in many situations by being calm and balanced. Your chart also shows the heliacal rising star of Deneb Algedi . That says that you can be very helpful to others and can make a big difference within your community.
Your chart also shows that there was a pre natal solar eclipse in Capricorn that happened whilst you were in the womb. This means that you believe everyone has strengths and something special to offer too. You have the ability to show people how to set about achieving things in a way that is harmonious with the environment and in terms of their connection to the whole of humanity, so that they do not succeed in one thing at the cost of another.
You are very drawn to the deeper meanings of life, especially questions around sex, spirituality and growth or evolution. Exploring these areas is important to you and you have the courage to bring things in yourself out into the open that other people are not interested in looking at in themselves. You want to understand yourself and life at a very deep level. Others might be happy on the surface of life but you do have the strength to go deep. As we are all always learning, however, this can cause a feeling of restlessness as we are never at the final answer to any question and there is always something more to learn. But the journey of learning and discovery will bring you a lot of joy as you have Pars Fortunae in Scorpio. You can see things very clearly and that comes easily to you.
One day, you might think about using this talent to help other people to grow beyond their fears. You have the ability to use your skills and knowledge to help others and you also have the ability to reach different types of people and gain insight into their experiences. This could bring you the diversity and changes that you need whilst fulfilling your achievements.
Having Saturn in Gemini means that when you can see yourself making things happen, you feel more secure about yourself. Because you have a very good mind, it is always good to think about how your best ideas can be made real and then make sure that work through to the finish.
In your chart, you also have Chiron in Aries. That means that when something hurts or wounds you, you can do a lot to heal yourself by looking for new projects and interests that you can pour your heart and soul into. You can look ahead and set your focus on what you want to achieve or learn in the future and make steps day by day until one day you wake up and realise that you have left the pain behind and have built or learned something that will help you and that you may even use to help others.
You can wear a brave mask that tells everyone that you are okay when sometimes you feel soft and vulnerable inside. You also tell me that you are getting help and I am very glad to read that. Finding and showing your true self to will help you become whole. You can make this journey to wholeness and then you really do have skills and gifts that mean you can help other people too. Know that you can do it. You are a beautiful soul and you matter.
Good luck on your journey.
Lots of love and hugs,
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